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Friday, July 17, 2009

men women

There are certain conclusions that I have drawn regarding men women and I am making the generalized observation in accordance with my perception of how the men women world is working. The understanding could be most useful when the two worlds meet.

Men have to a varying degree 'the sadistic instinct'probably provided by nature (could be the effect of testosterone which only biologists could confirm or find out)so as to become the agressor in procreation..to inflict pain if required to attain pleasure.

Women are made out to be more or less dreamers and self lovers again to varying degrees which possibly is also a hormonal effect..so that there is 'strutting' and seeking for appreciation though it might require or result in pain.

These nature endowed factors in both, though help in procreation are blocks in the spiritual search for true love. The 'body' thus may be obstructing the experience of true love.

These factors in men lead to love taking backseat and pleasure front seat even if it be often tinged with sadistic pleasure. In women these factors could lead to insecurities and jealousies taking precidence over unconditional love. Depending on the Yin Yang ratios, both men and women may have these blocks in the ratio of their own Yin Yang.

That is why physical love is shallow where the soul stands away as a mute spectator.The spirit needs to rise above these 'bodily' or physical blocks to unleash the experience of true love. Only when the two can come together out of spiritual love alongside the physical (or which generates the physical)..can the bonding be complete..awakening true love and true happiness in both the participants and enriching the spirit. In such a bonding the soul participates and only then do two really become one enriching each other in the meeting.

19 comments:

melissa said...

Hmmm...I couldn't understand it as much Jerly... perhaps a simpler explanation for me would do ;) Thanks.

Jerly said...

Well men force themselves on women and women pay that price for the mere biological fault of being vain and seeking attention. Its how they have been created and I speculate here that it is possibly something biological (that causes sadism, enjoying the misery of another)

Portia said...

Theorotically ok, but not practical.Body is the vehicle given to us to express love.And there is a grey area between carnal and spiritual.
-PORTIA

Tameka said...

This is an interesting notion but does not apply to all men or women. There are women who are comfortable in seeking and receiving only physical satisfaction and men who want a more romantic union. There are also female sadists. We are just one big bowl of human soup with different ingredients. Nice topic though.

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Jerly said...

Yeah Tameka, I know there are women sadists too, that is why I touched the topic of the male and female charecteristics in both sexes, while assuming that sadism is basically a male trait. Thanks for sharing your observations on people :)

Jerly said...

I feel you are so right about the grey area Portia! I needed something theorectical to understand what goes on in nature in the name of love and sex...It helps to accept if we think theoretically.

Motifs said...

Excellent write up,and I agree with everything u say,and this I say with personal experience.

Jerly said...

Thanks Alpana, I am so happy u feel so:)and that u agree with it.

Ravenmyth said...

Jerly very well put. If we can put aside the physical aspect which is needed in relationships we would see that it in no way defines "Love". It is as Portia says..a vehicle of expression. It is however, the Soul level where Love is nutured and brought to fruition. When the physical expression wanes as years pass, it is the Spiritual or Soul understanding of Love that brings us into an even deeper level of Love's Expression. Very Thought Provoking...Always...

nikhil..walking all alone said...

very well put up..nice work..:)

Roy Durham said...

Men, women, sex, and love. Men or women are not by nature brutal or sadist. It is the way they are perceived to be by society, educated by there up bring and society. The sex drive for both is a natural process. Love comes from the soul it needs to be felt in the person before it can be express. If a person is never allowed to feel loved they can never express it, this falls back to up bring and society. Good post thank you and god bless.

Jerly said...

Thank u Ravenmyth and Roy. Yeah, upbringing has a role in how much or how we express our natural tendencies or how we evolve in overcoming it with understanding

Debbie said...

Interesting post, I agree with some of the other comments. I believe alot of it has to do with up what we've been submitted too. But then again, just because you were shown certain things, doesn't mean you will do them.

Thought provoking thanks for sharing

Mattias Kroon said...

Interesting article which shows the need for being in unity with ourselves and between man and woman to create the unity both for the spirit, soul and body.

Dangerous Linda said...

I definitely believe that men and women are very different. Not only physically, but, emotionally, intellectually, spiritually and in most every way. But, I don't think I agree with the associations you make about sadism, pain, and male/female sexual preferences. I will ask my boyfriend what he thinks.

Jerly said...

:) I am happy u all read and thought about its possibility... Thank yous..

SUB said...

nice one...it is mostly about the hormones...that's what drive most of our emotions...i understood it when i had hypo-thyroidism...i used to get angry frequently, and ppl were surprised as it was against my nature...

:)

check this out>>>http://khonjtheeternalsearch.blogspot.com/2011/12/whore-and-hypocrite.html
if you are religious it might offend you though :(

Praveen said...

Very well put but maybe It was designed this way for a reason !

Grace said...

I know what you are talking about and agree with you almost completely. But i for one can't say if all men are one way and all women too, for that matter- but largely, yes.
There are freaks in nature you know :) - and some have achieved immortality through their works.We do differ in degrees in ways infinite
The encumberances of the female sex are inherent and the reason behind these differences.

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